
So You Think You're an Adult
A panel of hosts—Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Sean Moncrieff—tackle listener dilemmas about adult life. With wit and practical advice, they help navigate the challenges of being a grown-up. The show comes from Newstalk, Ireland's national independent talk station, and encourages conversation that counts. Listeners can tune in to Newstalk live or via the GoLoud app.
Episodes

So You Think You’re an Adult: Office threesome repeat?
Barbara Scully, Édaein O’Connell and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I’m falling in love with a Trump supporter
Barbara Scully, Édaein O’Connell and Tom Dunne help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Airport Travel Arguments
Declan Buckley, Édaein O’Connell and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: How to tell my wife I want to move home!
Declan Buckley, Édaein O’Connell and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: My boyfriend has a foot fetish!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Secretly dating a hated co-worker
Barbara Scully, Pádraig Wilson McCarthy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: When should I return to work?
Declan Buckley, Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Mother-in-law kisses me on the lips!
Declan Buckley, Édaein O’Connell and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Wife says I’ve let myself go
Declan Buckley, Édaein O’Connell and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Getting adult children to help around the house
Declan Buckley, Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should we warn the bride?
Declan Buckley, Édaein O’Connell and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Date was like a Ross O’Carroll-Kelly book!
Declan Buckley, Emma Nolan and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: My wife has lost her curves!
Barbara Scully, Shane Beatty and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Husband judges me for drinking
Declan Buckley, Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I’m the only friend with a baby
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: My mother is extremely controlling
Barbara Scully, Tom Donnelly and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Friend loves job I hated!
Declan Buckley, Barbara Scully and guest host Fionnuala Jones help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Boyfriend won’t hold hands in public
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Tom Dunne help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I date a heavy drinker?
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Pregnant, and not sure who the dad is
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Reconnecting with my sons
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Boyfriend quit smoking and expects me to quit too!
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Ten years without sex!
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and guest host Fionnuala Jones help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: My wife's cooking is terrible
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: My girlfriend wants to go on a weekend trip with 5 of her male friends
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: My wife wont let me go for dinner with an old friend
Declan Buckley, and Barbara Scully and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I contact my ex?
Declan Buckley, Amanda Brunker and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Pains of a January birthday!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Husband won’t get a vasectomy!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas.

So You Think You’re an Adult: Sister made my mum sleep on the floor!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Christmas present for a rubbish teacher?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Christmas drinks with nudists?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas live from the Sugar Club in Dublin!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Man keeps hitting on me in the gym
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: How did my friends buy this house?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Husband agreed to Vegas stag without telling me!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I tell my boyfriend I hooked up with his brother?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I hate my daughter’s rabbit!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I’m having a third boy - I want a girl!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I don’t like my husband as a person
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Boyfriend pees in the shower!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Elderly father won't spend money on himself
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Girlfriend doesn’t wash her hair!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Moving Back Home
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and John Fardy help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Girlfriend leaves door open while on the loo!
Declan Buckley, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I give my boyfriend an ultimatum?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: My girlfriend has bad breath!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Husband reads in bed too much!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I mention my sister’s weight?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Best friend is the problem - should I tell her?
Barbara Scully, Mary McEvoy and Tom Dunne help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Girlfriend listens to Harry Potter to sleep!
Mary McEvoy, Tara Duggan and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I’ve been ghosted!
Mary McEvoy, Amanda Brunker and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Fiancé wants to spend savings on hair transplant!
Declan Buckley, Amanda Brunker and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I move to my boyfriend’s farm?
Barbara Scully, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas (from a boat)!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Dad found someone new - I’m upset!
Declan Buckley, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Girlfriend loves camping - I don’t
Barbara Scully, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Daughter got engaged to someone we hate
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Sister wants to move in next door!
Declan Buckley, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I rat out my coworker?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I can’t get past a first date!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Husband has stolen cooking from me!
Declan Buckley, Mary McEvoy and Tom Dunne help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I live with a hoarder!
Declan Buckley, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I’m hiding that I take Ozempic
Declan Buckley, Mary McEvoy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I’m dreading Mother’s Day!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Friend thinks ‘queerness’ is controversial
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Boyfriend is cramping my style
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: My bridesmaid won’t invite me to her wedding!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: My husband wants separate duvets!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: How do I make friends?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: I need a farmer soulmate!
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Dating again in my 50’s
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Parents are mad I’ve quit my job
From clingy co-workers to bed-talk with boyfriends, Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: LIVE from the Dún Laoghaire National Maritime Museum
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas - live from the Dún Laoghaire National Maritime Museum!

So You Think You’re an Adult: My girlfriend doesn’t want to get married
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Is my boyfriend gay?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Emotionally moving on from divorce
Declan Buckley, Dee Reddy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Office Frenemy Trouble!
Declan Buckley, Dee Reddy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Don't want to give friend a job recommendation
Declan Buckley, Dee Reddy and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Should I leave Ireland for my boyfriend?
Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas!

So You Think You’re an Adult: Microwaved fish in the office!
From months without mum to rugby rendezvous, Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas…

So You Think You’re an Adult: I have feelings for my boss
From housemate hate to threesome troubles, Barbara Scully, Declan Buckley and Seán Moncrieff help tackle listener dilemmas…
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