The Dating Orange
The Dating Orange is a podcast about navigating the ups and downs of dating, hosted by the creator of a TikTok page that shared her own dating stories. Episodes feature the host, her friends, and well-known guests discussing dating experiences and advice. The show aims to make listeners feel less alone whether they are single, taken, or somewhere in between. New episodes arrive every second Tuesday, with bonus content available through HeadStuff+.
Episodes
Swing State: Soft Entry
Have you ever thought about how people actually find their way into Ireland’s swinging scene? In the series opener of Swing State, we start at the door.
My week-long experiment on Fab Swingers reveals a dramatic gender gap in attention. Origin stories from real-life swingers range from chance kitchen conversations and post-breakup curiosity to couples in long relationships deciding to explore tog
Swing State - Coming Soon!
Beyond the old myths of keys in a bowl and pampas grass lies a quiet but strong subculture operating right across Ireland.
Swing State is a new five-part investigative podcast series that takes an unvarnished look inside the country's swinging and alternative dating scene.
The series combines real-life stories, event insider perspectives, and a week-long app experiment that yielded 387 messages
[Preview] Bonus: The Kink Scene in Ireland with Jenny
This week the orange is joined by Jenny for the first of a two-part bonus series. Jenny shares what life is really like living in rural Ireland in a poly household. Jenny opens up about sleeping arrangements, handling jealousy, and how clear communication keeps their relationship thriving.
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[Preview] Bonus: Living Poly in Rural Ireland with Jenny
This week the orange is joined by Jenny for the first of a two-part bonus series. Jenny shares what life is really like living in rural Ireland in a poly household. Jenny opens up about sleeping arrangements, handling jealousy, and how clear communication keeps their relationship thriving.
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How Polyamory Actually Works
This week, the Orange co-hosted by friend of the show Justine Stafford sits down with creative director Hloni Coleman to explore alternative dating and break down how polyamory actually works.
Hloni shares his personal experiences with polyamorous relationships, setting boundaries, and managing jealousy. Plus, they react to real listener stories about alternative dating in Ireland and offer advi
[Preview] Bonus: Wedding Planning Part 2 (With Roisin from Daters Gonna Date)
Welcome back to part two of my conversation with Roisin from Daters Gonna Date.
This week we discuss the rest of the venues we both visited, vendors, music & entertainment options.
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Finding The Perfect Wedding Venue (with Roisin from Daters Gonna Date)
This week, the Orange sits down with Roisin from the Daters Gonna Date podcast to break down the reality of wedding venue hunting across Ireland.
From capacity caps and costs to barn setups, and mountain estates, they share the pros and cons of the spots they toured and why some fell flat. A must listen for any bride to be, so tell your friends who are engaged!
If you're enjoying this chat par
[Preview] Bonus: Closure, Delusion and Letting Go with Justine Stafford
Your friend was in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship, but five years later they’re still talking about him, looking for contact with him and his family, and searching for closure.
When does the need for closure stop being healing and start becoming self-harm? And when do you have to accept that you can’t keep helping someone who isn’t ready to move on?
I speak to Justine Stafford a
TikTok Thirst Traps to Craigslist Catfishes with Ross
This week's guest is Ross (@unsub1989), content creator, activist, accidental political commentator, and self-described 'Paddystinian.' His online journey is a funny one. He started off posting tasteful thirst traps on TikTok and somehow ended up talking about housing, healthcare, and government policy.
But today we are parking the politics, and we're getting into his dating life. Ross is bisexua
[Preview] Bonus: Matchmaking Adrian & Caroline
This week we hear from the wonderful Adrian & Caroline after their first date.
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Navigating Singles Events with Samantha Keating
Welcome back to The Dating Orange! 🍊
This week, the Orange chats with Samantha Keating, founder of Your Friend, My Friend, about running over 150 singles events across Ireland. Sam breaks down why meeting offline beats swiping on apps, why people need to give the spark time to grow, and the mystery of getting men to actually show up. This is a must listen for anyone done with dating apps.
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From Courtrooms To Comedy with Justine Halpin
Welcome back to The Dating Orange!
Today's guest, Justine Halpin, solicitor working in domestic violence by day and a stand up comedian by night, giving her a unique perspective on dating. Despite working tough cases daily, she’s held onto her sense of humor.
She shares her own relationship experiences, including a Dublin actor who was seeing other women, leading to a surprising friendship an
[Preview] Bonus: Matchmaking Mairead & Conor
Tall? Check. Ginger? Snickers workwear? Check.
The Orange may have found Mairead’s dream guy this week, but could he actually be the one?
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Nightmare Dates with Tracy from The Midlands
Welcome back to The Dating Orange!
This week the Orange is joined by the wonderful Tracy from The Midlands. Tracy is a gas character who has lots of hilarious and shocking stories from years of trying to find a normal fella. If you've ever wondered where all the good and decent men have disappeared you'll enjoy this one.
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[Preview] Bonus: Matchmaking Triona & Richard
This week the orange is matching up Richard and Triona. Surely we don't have another case of ghosting on our hands this week!?.. 👻
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Catfish: Who Is Behind Dr. Rudy Stein?
Welcome back to The Dating Orange!
Three women got in touch with me separately over the space of a few months, all describing different experiences with the same man from a dating app… and it was only when they started comparing notes that they realised they hadn’t just dated the same person, they had all been speaking to the same fake identity. Tune in this week as we ask who is behind Dr. Rudy
Josie in Dublin: Normal People vs. Real Irish Lads
Welcome back to The Dating Orange!
This week the orange is joined by Josie, a TikToker from Chicago living in Dublin. Josie opens up about moving to Ireland with Normal People expectations, only to be met with low effort pub dates and TikTok backlash for being 'too forward' for the men of Ireland.
Keep up with Josie on TikTok @liketotallyjosie
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The Manosphere & Male Loneliness with Aoife Moore
Welcome back to The Dating Orange!
This week the orange is joined by journalist and author Aoife Moore to chat about the recent Louis Theroux Manosphere documentary and the male loneliness epidemic. Plus, the Orange has an interesting story to get Aoife's thoughts on... Enjoy 🍊
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[Preview] Bonus: Matchmaking Séan and Laura
Welcome to the very first exclusive matchmaking episode of The Dating Orange. This week, the Orange is matching up farmer Séan and teacher Lorna. They seem perfect on paper, but will sparks fly when they finally meet?
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JUSTINE…. I’M ENGAGED
Welcome back for a new season of The Dating Orange.
This week The Orange opens up to good pal Justine Stafford about her recent engagement. This one is not to be missed! 🍊💍
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The Dating Orange Is Back
The Dating Orange is back and this new season dives headfirst into the chaos of modern dating, featuring real-life stories from everyday people, from a man with his own “baby reindeer” experience to a woman whose date faked his father’s death. Alongside comedians, journalists, therapists and content creators, the series explores everything from the manosphere and women’s safety to healing, heartbr
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Jennie's Law: Amanda's Story
Amanda shares her story of nearly nine years in an abusive relationship filled with violence, control, and addiction. Her ex had a history of violent convictions, struggled with gambling, drugs, and porn, and when he owed men money, they came to her door making threats. She stayed for years, fearing what would happen when she left, until she finally saw her chance to escape.Amanda is confident tha
Jennie's Law: Elma's Story
In this episode of my four-part Jennie’s Law series, Elma shares her story of leaving an abusive marriage after years of mental abuse. She talks about her ex-partner’s alcoholism, the safety order she obtained, his breach and conviction, and why she believes it’s so important for anyone entering a relationship with him to know his history.Elma is now in a happy and peaceful relationship and hopes
Jennie's Law: Sasha's Story
Sasha shares her story of surviving a brutal assault by her then-boyfriend, and fighting for justice. She talks about the challenges women face when speaking out, difficulties in the courtroom, and why a law like Jennie’s Law will make a real difference to women in the future. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support.
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Jennie's Law: Jennie's Story
This episode is all about Jennie’s Law, the proposed legislation aimed at protecting people from entering relationships with partners who have a history of domestic violence. Approved by cabinet and now before the Dáil, the law is a vital step toward making dating safer, and we hope it will soon be signed into law.In this episode, Jason Poole, Jennifer Poole’s brother, shares her story and his fig
Catfish in the Cockpit
Dearbhaile matched with a man claiming to be an Aer Lingus pilot - he definitely was not a pilot but definitely was actually married with kids. For two weeks, he spoofed about his job, travels and life as a pilot, until Dearbhaile found out the truth and put the fear of God into him over text. A year later, he popped up on MY Tinder, this time photoshopping his head onto a pilot’s body. We chat th
Filthy John: Monica's Story - Part 2
In the final episode of The Dating Orange Podcast, Monica talks about the challenges she faced after her relationship with John ended. She shares her disappointment with the lack of support from the guards and how she even faced a Tusla investigation for leaving her daughter alone for a few hours while she worked. We also hear reconstructions of some of the calls she recorded from John - showing c
Filthy John: Linda's Story - Part 2
In this episode, we catch up with Linda, and a lot has changed. She’s not afraid of John anymore or the power he used to have over her. After the women connected, Monica set up a WhatsApp group so everyone could talk and support each other. But as more women joined, not everyone agreed with the mission, and things got a bit tense.When the last podcast aired, some nasty comments started popping up
Filthy John: Orlaith's Story
When Orlaith met John on Tinder, he seemed like the perfect match for her - funny, thoughtful and kind. But soon the cracks began to show. Unlike the other women, Orlaith didn’t have a child for him to use as a prop. Instead, he tried to isolate her, invaded her privacy and stole from her. Living with a chronic health condition that sometimes affected her memory, John twisted this and used it agai
Doing it for the plot
This week it's chit chat with my pal, Amy Coleman, who used to go on dates purely for the plot (and just to get out of the house, as she says herself). Somehow, she managed to attract some very emotional men (brace for stories re poems and plastic roses), and we have a lil cackle going back and forth over our dating stories. These days she’s happily married but the stories live on.... like a museu
"I don't need a man - I am the man" with Katelyn Divilly
This week it's Katelyn Divilly from The Traitors Ireland.. she was the second traitor booted (apols for any potential spoiler there but get with the times). We have a good chat about the madness inside the castle, the whole “we can control her” weirdness, and then of course her own dating life. Katelyn’s happily single, hates dating apps, and knows all about the pressure people put on you to settl
Blocked by my PayPig
We're gonna chat about strange world of paypigging and FinDom. Firstly - big thanks to my pal Fergal Darcy for lending his voice to the paypig’s messages - I think you have a calling there hun!I start by sharing the story of my own on/off seven-month communication with a paypig which was aided by both my fella and the girls. The PayPiggy himself was meant to be a guest on this pod before suddenly
A starfish, a paypig and the Mulhollands
THIS WEEK I’m joined by my pal Bria - a TikTok creator you may know as briakingbad or COLETTE - and her mam Dera, a retired psychotherapist. The two of them together are comedy gold. We give our opinions on some listener dating stories, Bria shares her rotten tale of a man sending her a pic of his 'puckered shitter', and I tell the story of how I somehow ended up with a little paypig of my own. St
From Brazil & Venezuela, to Irish dating apps
I always thought it was poor form how Irish lads spoke to South Americans, so say hello to Ana from Brazil and Lucia from Venezuela to chat about what it’s really like dating in Ireland as a South American woman.Lucia’s been here five years and has been on over 50 dates — all with Irish or European men. Ana’s been here three and shares her experience of a 1.5-year relationship with an Irish man wh
Don’t Send the Nude & Other Life Lessons with Daragh Fleming
Join myself and Irish writer, poet, and mental health advocate Daragh Fleming - who tells us about the time he got SEXTORTED (technical term, intimate image abuse or image-based sexual abuse) by a Nigerian gang of all people!Instead of spiralling and curling up under the duvet (which, fair), Daragh decided to go public with the story - not for clout, but to help others avoid the same trap and the
Fetishised & Fed Up: Sex Siopa Owner Tells All
I am back after a brief 6 week hiatus following the Filthy John SAGA!An seachtain seo, I have Seattle native Shawna Scott who is the founder of Sex Siopa, Ireland’s most beloved multi-award-winning sex toy boutique. The Americano Shawna spotted a major gap in Ireland’s market for inclusive, body-safe, shame-free sex products and much to our JOY, decided to do something about it. She takes us back
Filthy John: Aine’s Story
In this final installment of Filthy John, Aine takes the spotlight to share her experience with John. She opens up about his drug addiction, compulsive lying, and the growing concern she holds for his young daughter. The rest of the women return one last time to recount some truly jaw-dropping stories about John and we learn that John has just discovered the existence of this series - and he’s not
Filthy John: Linda’s Story
For almost the first year of her relationship with John, Linda was over the moon. she thought she had the perfect relationship, and the BDSM aspect was the cherry on top. But things took a turn, and John's manipulation became relentless - convincing her and even her family that she was unwell, stealing from her and mentally abusing her. In this episode, Linda opens up about the emotional and ment
Filthy John: Kim’s Story
Kim thought she’d found the perfect man. John was charming, attentive - too good to be true. And he was. In this episode, Kim shares how John’s lies and manipulation gave way to emotional abuse and torment.Trigger warning: This episode discusses emotional abuse and more. If you’ve been affected by anything in this series, support is available. Contact Women’s Aid on 1800 341 900 or the Dublin Rape
Filthy John: Monica’s Story
John, 47, from Wexford seemed like the dream - charming, funny, attentive and everything a woman could want. But behind the charm was a darker truth: compulsive lying, cheating, stealing, drugs, manipulation, and worse. This multi-part series shares the real experiences of the women he deceived, not just to tell their stories, but to help protect others. If you recognise him, or his behaviour, thi
Filthy John trailer
Meet Filthy John - a charming, funny, Wexford man.Women who meet him are quickly drawn in, convinced they’ve finally found the one. He knows exactly what to say, how to say it, and when to say it. But behind the charm is something much darker…A prolific liar. A manipulator. A thief. An addict. A mentally abusive serial cheater.This multi-part podcast series exposes the real man behind the mask - a
Big Sexy Ride Megan Burke on Fetishes, Fools & Getting Banned from Tinder
Today I’m joined by the gas Megan Burke – a singer-songwriter from Swords who’s had more than her fair share of shit-shows. We’re covering her cheating ex, the horrors she’s encountered on dating apps (including getting blocked on Tinder - but it's mostly just the messages from men), and what it’s like dating as a "BIG SEXY RIDE". You can look forward to stories about immature men, creepy fetish r
How Attachment Shapes Your Dating Life - with Adam Lane Smith
Today I’m joined by Adam Lane Smith, also known as Attachment Adam, a global expert in attachment theory, author, speaker, and former marriage and family therapist. Adam breaks down attachment theory in a way that's easy to understand so if you were ever wondering why a fella acts so all-over-the-place and you simply can't understand him - you might find some answers today. We also chat about some
Cheaters, Weirdos & Coppers - with Kasey Campion & Lauren Murtagh
The two TikTok gals, Kasey Campion and Lauren Murtagh, fill me in on just how hard it is trying to find a decent fella these days. Both only in their early 20s, but they have been THROUGH it - cheaters, weirdos and everything in between. PLUS, I’m catching up with a blind date I set up between two of my own pals (from totally different parts of my life) who have both been unlucky in love. Did I fi
Dating App Pics, Meeting IRL & Erika Ettin’s Expert Advice (Part 2)
Dating coach Erika Ettin is back for part two, where we take a look at meeting people in real life, having a more positive outlook on dating apps, and choosing the best photos. Erika also dishes out some advice to queries sent in to me on IG. And at the end, we’re catching up with James and Lucia, another couple I set up on a blind date. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com
The Nudge You Need: Healthy Mindset, Resilience & Bio Tips with Dating Coach Erika Ettin
Dating coach Erika Ettin, also known as 'A Little Nudge' online, joins me for the first of two episodes on all things dating; best practices, how to craft the perfect bio, staying resilient, and changing your mindset for the better whilst putting yourself out there. You might be deep in the apps or wondering why you're still single, so hopefully Erika’s advice is the nudge you need! And at the end
Situationships, STDs & Short Kings - with Justine Stafford
I'm kicking off Season 2 with an extra-long episode, and who better to join me than my pal, comedian Justine Stafford?! Join us two great girls for a no-holds-barred chat about all things dating - our singles night out, the reality of STDs, the struggles (and surprises) of short kings, and, of course, my ex-situationship unpleasantly rising from the dead. Plus, at the end of the episode, I catch u
Finale: Dating Tales & Singles Night
Another 'extended tiktok' as I like to call them, where I read and replying to 4 dating stories that have been sent into me. Also replying to a girl’s Agony Orange issue about why she is struggling to find love. I give ya the deets on my singles night in McGowans and why I think all singletons should give it a go. Final ep of 2023: Thanks so much for listening xBecome a supporter of this podcast:
Sheila Naughton Tells All
Ex gogglebox Ireland star, Newstalk reporter, eating disorder activist and Irelands strongest woman 2023 Sheila Naughton, tells us her gas tales from ten years on the apps, how she navigates dating with an eating disorder, and staying positive in dating.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support.
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Lea & the Lesbians: Tales from the Gay Dating Scene
Longer than usual episodes BUT this one has 4 wild back-to-back tales from the lesbian dating scene, as told by my friend Lea. Lea is quite the spiritual lady and at the end of this episode she goes through the most and least compatible star signs, talks about the power of manifesting and give me a mini tarot reading.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-o
Get Sciencey with Dating Strategist Kayleigh Castle
This week I have dating strategist and coach Kayleigh Castle whose career has launched via tiktok, after she got to the bottom of why she attracts shitebags. She now gives dating advice to struggling women. We also discuss feminine & masculine energy, men paying for dates, going no-contact, trauma bonds, attachment styles, and licking fannies.Disclaimer: I don't agree with a lot of this craic but
Daters Gonna Date and Cheaters Gonna Cheat
The 2 girls from Daters Gonna Date Podcast, Roisin and Nicola, come on to discuss the singles night myself and Roisin went to the other week including the awk moments with 3 men I met there, that I’d previously chatted to online. The girls also give us some dating horror stories, mainly how they repeatedly attract men with girlfriends and wives.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.sprea
James Gardner: "Guys are Fkn Mental"
Stand-up comedian James Gardner talks old school dating sites, misogyny in dating, and how his girlfriend opened his eyes to what it’s like being a woman. And just basically how "guys are fkn mental".Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support.
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Dating Tales: The Long Ones
I am back on my tod today reading out some long stories that were sent in by followers, that I can't fit into the 3 min time restriction on TikTok.Giving ye all an update on my dating life as I'm now back on Hinge and Tinder, praying for different results 🥲And one for the Agony Orange at the end.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530
Theee Justine Stafford
The legend herself Justine Stafford talks all things online dating, good ole catholic guilt and attempting to date as a well-known funny woman in the public sphere. And of course, pints.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support.
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Mark & the Mentalers: The Coke Episode
A longer one than usual. This episode is about my friend Mark, a nice aul fella, who has an unfortunate dating history with some crazy stories and crazy women. He tells us about two nightmare dates he's experienced; one of which was definitely on coke, the other we only suspect. Staying on theme, I read out a followers story of her crazy coke experience on a date.Become a supporter of this podcast
BDSM Magnet
In this episode I interview my friend, lovingly coined the BDSM Magnet as he attracts women that enjoy a good batin' in the bedroom. I also divulge my own singular experience with BDSM so IF YOU'RE RELATED TO ME, I ENCOURAGE YOU NOT TO LISTEN. Ta xBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support.
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Dating Tales: The Wild Ones
The wildest dating stories that have been sent into me! Brace yourself for a rollercoaster of outrageous encounters, cringey moments, and stomach turning surprises.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support.
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